D is for DTR
So apparently my anxiety was, as almost always, over the top. I went out with Dr. Movie on Tuesday night. I have now been out with him 6 times over the past three weeks. I’ve stayed over the last 4 of those times. His cousin is coming into town this weekend and I’m going to hang out with them together. Little Sister’s British Soldier boyfriend is getting into town tomorrow and staying for a week and we’re planning going out with them at some point. So the question becomes when/how to have the DTR. I hate the DTR, but I also don’t like uncertainty in my relationships. I am getting to the point where if we’re going to keep going out and he’s going to be meeting my family, I want it to be as my boyfriend. But I am a little freaked out about the DTR. It’s so awkward to bring up. At the moment, I’m going to wait and see how he handles Valentine’s Day. If he doesn’t get me flowers/take me out or at least spend time with me, I guess I’ll kind of have my answer about what he thinks about me/”us” and shelf the DTR. If he does do what he’s supposed to do, I’m thinking sometime after we hang out with my sister and her boyfriend. It’ll have been a month and he will have met my sister, so that’s reasonable, I think.
